*Picks up mic*
Before we even get started, let’s first define and get the actual definition of what it means to suck, so that you have a clear understanding of people who suck and why they do what they do.
– to draw (as liquid) into the mouth through a suction force produced by movements of the lips and tongue
– to be bad at a particular subject or action.
– to be inadequate, displeasing, objectionable, or of poor quality.
We’re going to go with the latter two for the purposes of this post.
WHY PEOPLE *WHO SUCK* CHOOSE BLACK WOMEN AS THEIR TARGETS
Cause its just easy peasy to pick on the underdog and vulnerable. Weak people WHO SUCK are never up for true challenges, so they gotta always take the easy route.
This is a discussion that many Black women have amongst themselves. One in which we kick around theories as to why people feel the need to pick on, hate on, shit on, and use Black women as their punching bags and scapegoats to feeling “less sucky” than they already are.
Everyone has a theory about it but there seems to be one that sticks: People who SUCK at life, in love and in varying ways, always need a scapegoat for when they look in the mirror and throw up just
a little bit ALOT in their mouths and have to face the realities that THEY SUCK, and their shit STINKS to high heaven lowly hell!
My tolerance level for these people has reached triple digit negative decimals and I’m gonna start calling spades and haters, spades and haters. I don’t care what group or gender they belong to. My purpose is to no longer sit quiet and watch their SUCKY asses splatter their smelly shit onto the plates of Black women who are simply living life the best way we can and minding our own damn business.
- BE FOREWARNED. If you do not like looking at, reading the word SUCK and its variations. STOP READING NOW*
PEOPLE WHO SUCK ALLLLLWAYS GOTTA HAVE A PLAN
B BLACK WOMAN
SO when a person or persons of a particular group SUCK, but despite their SUCKINESS feels they should be entitled to all the wonderful things in life, suddenly realize that the universe, karma and nature do not giveafock about rewarding them based on existing man made privileges and other societal nonsense that places people in categories and rewards or punishes them as such, or how they are placed on the social heiarchy, they have to start looking for things and other people to look down on and kick around, to forget about the fact that…. they pretty much suck.
DEFLECTION and PROJECTION are the SUCKY PERSONS GREATEST STRENGTHS
Yes people who SUCK actually have strengths! Their biggest and ONLY ones being:
People who SUCK and refuse to realize they suck for their own reasons and can work on it, are lazy. A person who wins at life is able to REFLECT as to become better and REJECT the things in their life that is causing them to lose.
So the anti-thesis of Deflection and Projection are Reflection and Rejection.
Unfortunately, people who SUCK and don’t want to do anything about it or improve, want to take the easy route and just focus on other people and their so called “downfalls” whether created themselves or real.
So the lacking and sucking at life use deflections and projection as a way to take the spotlight off of their flaws, downfalls and outright suckiness.
Because if you SUCK, all you have to do is point to others sucking as a way to deflect from people looking at you and your obvious suckiness. A lot of times it doesn’t even work because most people can clearly see through a sucky persons antics, but most people do not even bother with calling them out because its in many cases futile.
But the point is, its much easier to deflect attention away from yourself if you SUCK and want to put that spotlight on others – others who are vulnerable and easy targets that is.
The projection part I don’t believe they as SUCKY people realize they do. However, intelligent people who do not SUCK AT LIFE clearly sees this projection at its worse. This is where the SUCK AT LIFE people don’t realize they become transparent.
They start projecting their own flaws onto others. Once again, circumventing having to work on themselves, they simply take their sucky flaws and *ATTEMPTS* to drop their little roach droppings on others who no one would really question them in doing that to.
So if you SUCK as a person and you have a hard time dealing with that reality, you have to find someone else to drop your roach droppings on and point to to say “hey you suck!!!” to feel just *THAT* much better about yourself and your suckiness.
Another thing. Is when you SUCK and you have entitlement issues, you begin to conjure up all kinds of justifications for OTHER PEOPLE’S EXISTENCE.
Remember, the people who lack and suck at life’s goal is to never face their realities. its always deflect, deflect, deflect, project, project project!
It becomes so, that they actually become obsessed with a certain person or groups of people who they are projecting and it becomes a domino effect amongst the lacking and sucky at life. They start jumping on each other’s band wagon once they realize their brethren and fellow lacking and sucking at life have found a wonderful easy target they can get away with deflecting and projecting on without much consequence.
*SIGH* that was a mouthful.
In the end it becomes clear what is going on. And this is the point I want to drive to Black women. BE VERY clear as to the root and designation of the lacking and sucking at life. Its always to derail facing their flaws and issues and try to force someone else to accept them as their own.
In a nutshell : MISERY LOOVES COMPANY
THE NITTY GRITTY OF MY POST AND POINT
Alright I’m done with hammering the point that people who SUCK target those who they feel they can easily deflect and project their suckiness onto.
There are groups of certain people who loooooorve projecting, deflecting and pointing to Black women once they look in the mirror and realize they do not like what they see. Because they are typically in positions where they can mask their downfalls and flaws to a certain degree, they take advantage of this. Of course they look around and see and say to themselves “whose the easiest target for me to deflect attention away from myself, my flaws and my lacking?”.
Yes. because Black women have no real Posse or Army of folks looking to go to war for us, or looking to defend our existence, or honor we become the easy targets when people who lack and KNOW THEY ARE LACKING have to look in their own mirror and gag at what stares back at them. That GAG reflex then becomes motivation for one of two things:
– working on themselves to be less gag worthy
– totally ignoring it altogether and coming up with some random person or persons they can bully and pick on to not have to face the ugly gag reality that stares back at them and that they have to live with every day 24 hours.
I keep driving this point home because Black women need to be very clear that the problem is not YOU or US, but rather THEM. It is easy to get caught up in the nuances, but let’s always remember Black women are hardly ever the problem in instances where people become obsessed with using us as their punching bags.
Others are more Slick about what they do and pretend to be on our side, but if you look closely, they are just wolves in sheep clothing. Some even go as far as to use dumb unproved laughable “scientific studies” and idiotic “surveys” to somehow prove that *WE* suck. And they are getting away with this. Stuff they would never get away with with other groups who have the power and force to challenge and PUNISH accordingly when idiots come up with laughable stats and “scientific” studies.
Other examples of “wolves in sheep clothing” projections and deflections are all those 2896587356487653485634875643785628756276543162543154205904985 billions of articles written up almost every
hour on the hour minute on the minute pointing out where Black women “lack” or are leading the way with some negative statistic. LOL They try to mask these articles as “concern” for us, when they are just being a lot more savvy in their quest to once again DEFLECT and PROJECT away from their groups issues and problems.
WHEN THE SHIT IS PILED UP TO HIGH FOR THEM TO EVEN MANEUVER IN THIER OWN EXISTENCE, THEY COME A RUNNING TO DROP THIER DROPPINGS ON A CLEAN CANVAS
When it becomes impossible to maneuver around peacefully within your own existence because your shit and issues are piled too high and you are too lazy to clean it up, it becomes a mission to go and shit in other people’s existence and dirty up their clean canvas so you can once again feel “Free” and able to move about the cabin.
You see not all people who suck are stupid. There are people who need to use certain groups as a collective to boost themselves and their groups and always have a one up, even when things are going awry.
That should be the first clue and sign when others are struggling with themselves – the minute they start poking and prodding around in the Black woman’s yard be on notice that something is CLEARLY wrong in their homes and thus why they are over in your backyard trying to stir up shit and drop their smelly little roach dropping on your clean canvas.
Misery loves company.
The best thing Black women can do (for those who simply do not have the time nor energy to fight that good fight) is to keep living well (and aging well. Yeah I went there). THAT is truly your best revenge as a Black woman. Unfortunately, you will know once you begin to do this successfully, the cockroaches of planet SUCK will start coming after you in full force. Eventually if you stay on track, the roaches will start being seen for who and what they are, when they no longer can find solace in your existence because its just to good for them to even survive in!
Remember a clean well kept home, doesn’t have roaches ;).
So now let’s list some very specific and COMMON examples of how other people who suck at life and throw up just
a little A LOT in their mouths when they look in the mirror, use Black women as their shield of protection in facing their SUCKINESS head on:
– Racist WHite men who pedestalize White women but can’t seem to keep Black women and our “horrible existence” out of their mouths.
What’s at play here? we see a group who claims to have only Becky on the brain, but can’t seem to stop talking about and focusing on KEISHA. Hmmm. WHY????????
– Black men who claim that all races of women are only worthy of their attention and affections and Black women just SUCK.
What’s at play here? Once again we see another group who claims to have Becky, Maria and Ming Li on the brain, but can’t seem to stop talking about and focusing on KEISHA. Hmmm. WHY????????
– News outlets, papers and magazines that obviously have no other news to report other than Black women’s negative ___________________ you fill in the blank statistics.
What’s at play here?
– So called “SCIENTISTS” who create laughable, racist and embarrassing (for them) “studies” claiming that Black women are just UGLAY
What’s at play here? Why bother? I mean if someone is that damn bad, why waste resources, money, time and risking your reputation to “Prove” what you claim is obvious? Right. if this is something “obvious” why the need to prove it? Hmmmmm.
– Dating sites that come up with laughable “DATA” that claims Black women are the lowest on the totem pole when it comes to getting hits and dates
What’s at play here? Not sure why this even matters. Is it to inform Black women to stop wasting their energy, time and resources and to actually get out and learn to meet people face to face to have a better opportunities or is it to make some “POINT” to Black women and others about Black women’s desirability? HMMMMM. If so why bother? What in the end do these studies do for mankind other than prove that a lot of people have way too much fkn lost time on their hands.
Love that phrase that Kahdijia used to use quite frequently when asking “WHo benefits” Always be asking yourself “who benefits” from making these kinds of claims and assertions about Black women and WHY. Then it will always be clear as to what is at play!
We always need to be asking when these things come up as Black women “what’s at play here”. Because for a minority of women who everyone claims to be the worse creation since mankind to constantly be on the mouths, tongues, brains (and I’m using the term brains loosely here) says there is definitely something more at play.
And that answer is, people are always looking for the easy target to deflect from themselves.
Notice how there are never any billions of articles that focus on how young White males are more likely to commit mass murder. yet we hear and see at least 2-3 times a year about young White males who have gone and killed a boatload of people for no reason at all. YET, there are no “scientific” studies poking and prodding White men as a collective to understand why this occurs. WHY? because WHite men are allowed to be individuals! Imagine that. Insted they just find something to write about Black women. DEFLECTION and PROJECTION.
Notice how despite the raging stats on Black men, crime, and a boatload of other obvious negative things they are known for, we don’t see the same amount of effort into doing “scientific” studies and data on poking and prodding into Black men. In fact, Black men seem to be able to completely ignore their own shitfests so much they have time to focus on telling the world and Black women where Black women com up short. Just create an article about Black women.LOL! WHy? Once again DEFLECTION and PROJECTION.
Notice how when a White woman does some dirt, does questionable things, we don’t get bombarded with articles, scientific studies and data, poking and probing into what is wrong with them as a collective. Instead they just come up with something to write about Black women. LOL. DEFLECTION and PROJECTION.
Do we see a pattern here? When in doubt or unable to face their fked up realities, people JUST WRITE AN ARTICLE, CREATE A BLOG, START A TWITTER ACCOUNT OR FACEBOOK PAGE – targeting Black women and our “flaws”. That seems to be the answer is all cases!
Black women WAKE UP and stop drinking other peoples kool aid. They pick on you and target you because THEY CAN and because THEY SUCK in more ways than one and don’t want anyone to see it, and would rather deflect their lackingingess onto Black women, than fix the shit they see staring back at them in the mirror every damn day.