American Women – Its time to STOP being STUCK ON STUPID!
I have self appointed myself to be the Ambassador of the “Wake the EFF UP!” campaign against western women . Our Mascot is …COFFEE. Yes the Kool-Aid man has left the building scalding from our powerful mascot COFFE MAN!
*Neecy standing on her soap box podium with her bullhorn*
Ladies of the USA! I now hereby direct you to put down that Kool-Aid you’re drinking and expeditiously get your hind parts to the nearest coffee shop and stay there until I have instructed that you may leave the building! If you see a member of the male species on your way there, DO NOT stop, DO NOT pass GO, DO NOT collect $200, do not give him a blow job b/c he is hot, do not make out with him – b/c he is hot, and do not have sex with him – b/c he is hot! Head straight to the coffee shop! Once there, I demand that you binge on extensive, substantial, considerable, large amounts of coffee drinks and expresso shots until further notice. WHY? Because you need to wake up and
SMELL DRINK, QUAFF, INHALE, SWALLOW, SWIG, DOWN, SOAK UP, GULP, the coffee!
Enough is enough. The sky is falling and instead of covering our heads, we’re opening our legs.
Ladies – what’s the deely? Seriously, its time we have a come to Jesus talk with each other about the role we play in the sexual dating/mating arena and why today we are missing out. We can sit and quip about and to the fellas about things like:
“All men want to do is have sex and not commit”
“Where are all the good men at?”
You ask – Where are all the good men at? Looking for a good woman and not washed up skanks who have slept around with a bunch of doods most of her life and now want some good ole boy to come and sweep her off her feet. Did those bad boys and doods you gave it up to so quickly have to sweep you off your feet to get it? (NOOOO I’m not talking about literally picking you up and carrying you upstairs to the bedroom and plopping you down on the bed honey). But the good ole boys should be there to do the sweeping up?
At the end of the day the saying goes:
BEHIND EVERY GOOD MAN IS A GOOD WOMAN. (DO NOT ask me where that came from, I just hear a lot of Black people saying it. lol)
So my point is this. If women today want good men, then its time to woman up and realize that you first need to be a good woman. How many times do I have to have this discussion that women control and maintain the sexual market place with
the snap of her finger opening/closing of her legs?
Ladies, YES, if you keep your legs closed for half a millimeter of a second, guess what the domino effect would be? Men would keep their penises in their boxers for that same amount of time! IOW’s a man can only have sex with the amount of women that are opening their legs for him. If women kept their legs closed, more men would have no choice but to heed to the desires of women who wanted committed relationships FIRST.
Nowadays it’s a sex free for all b/c Western Women want to have their
cake penis and eat it too!
“OH NEECY YOU’RE JUST A PRUDE !!”
Oh no you don’t. I’m just as freaky minded and horny as the next woman. YES! women get horny; YES! women desire to have sex; YES! women get gina tingles; YES! we fantasize about being passionately taken and ravaged by:
somehotstudwithwidebroadshouldersandthevshapedthingythatleadstowardshispelvicregion! *whew that was a breath taker sentence there. fanning self and taking a swig of cold water*
Its natural ladies. In an ideal world we could partake in all of the hot studs, bad boys our bodies so desired and still come out unscathed, happy go lucky gals still able to be solid partners for the right guy. But we don’t live in a utopia. We live in a world with consequences based on actions. We live in a world where we have to practice discipline and control for a lot of things that are hard. I struggle with this daily in some parts of my life but eventually I will reach the promise land. Sacrifice is not without merit, it just takes a long frigging time to see the rewards sometimes. So I get it b/c I am a woman too. Its natural to want to give into your physical desires. But what is *NOT* natural is sleeping with every Tom, Dick, Harry; Tyrone, Ray Ray, Leroy; Chang, Chong, Chin; Jesus, Jose, Jorge’ (pronounced whore-hay); Deepak, Habeeb, Kumar (I think I covered all the races here?); that crosses our path!
And b/c life isn’t fair its women who needs to be the gender that practices more self-discipline and self-control in the types of sexual encounters that we engage. Men are only going to do what we allow them to when it comes to how we treat our bodies and value our sexuality as the more discerning/choosier sex. If we have free for all sex with no commitments or strings attached, better believe the fellas will follow suit. If we have “you aint getting any until you have proven your worth or until we are in a relationship of some sort” sex, the men will follow suit and do so graciously. How do I know – they did it back in the day, and they will pretty much do anything to get sex from women without having to go out and pay for it. Women today have turned One Night Stands into regular hook ups. WTH? Its like today if a woman is not engaging in one night stands and random frequent hook-ups with strangers then something is wrong with HER.
The NY Post just ran an article called “CHEAP DATES” that covers dismal dating market out there today. They also inform us of how the value of sex has dropped considerably b/c YES, ladies we won’t keep our legs closed!
THE VALUE OF WOMANHOOD TODAY CRASHING & DROPPING LIKE THE STOCK MARKET ON A *REALLY* BAD DAY
Let’s face it. The value of women and womanhood in general today is at the 0 decimal heading straight down the negative side of the number line. Men do not really have to *value* what a woman is anymore b/c everything is so easy to get for them. Whatever mystery there was to women sexually is NO MORE. When the value of women drops in society, so does the value of committed relationships, marriage, stable and healthy families. Appealing to the most primitive aspect of a man’s nature is not getting women ANYWHERE but being rode hard and put away wet with a bunch of sad, confused feelings to clean up afterwards. The fact is women cannot sleep around like men and expect to come out on top *metaphorically* (pun intended).
STOP DRINKING THE KOOL-AID
Society today is full of liberals who paint casual sex as some new aged progressive train that women should jump on b/c we just CAN. The liberal society full of crazy feminist loony extremists never really gives women the full or whole picture on the consequences of being
a hoe “sexually empowered”. Instead they want to have “slut walks” to proclaim their rights to be.. sluts who get pumped n dumped by doods. *in the famous words of Buckwheat* O TAY! *confused face*.
I’m not so sure that the founders of feminism had that in mind when they were fighting for women to have right’s. I could be wrong, but I highly suspect many of them may be turning an doing backflips in their graves as I speak watching the residual effects of some feminist loonies who have taken feminism as their banner to SLUTHOOD FREEDOM and to be the most undesirable attention seeking women walking the earth.
Just b/c you *CAN* do something doesn’t mean you *SHOULD* do it. I can go jump off of a cliff easily. Should I do that? DO NOT answer that honestly. Thank you :)
WOMENS SEXUAL PROMISCUITY = SEEKING MALE APPROVAL & UNREQUITED AFFECTION
Women today have sex with various men most of the time b/c they feel this is the easiest quickest way to a gain man’s affections and heart. RIGHT – about the quickest and easiest way; WRONG – about his affections and heart. Plainly and simply put Sex is the easiest quickest way toooo? gain a man’s penis! Nothing more and nothing less. It is what it is. Also, many women buy into the whole crapola slogan about female empowerment being able to be sexually promiscuous and do what the boys do without consequence. Sorry ladies there ARE consequences to sleeping around – what are they? The value of sex being close to ZERO to most men. And when the value of sex drops considerably, so does the value of women and commitments to women.
A woman’s ability to bond with the right man is also tossed away when you sleep around with a lot of men. We all know why Oxytocin is a very powerful bonding chemical that is released by females during intimacy, childbirth, breastfeeding. ITS CHEMICAL LADIES. You can have all the slut marches and walks proclaiming your rights to have sex with a billion men a month, but you cannot fight mother nature who will always WIN over human craziness!
SO many women are desperate to one up another woman they deem may be getting more attention from a man that they will drop their panties to “get him” and keep his attentions off another woman. Women today are so lacking self-value that the only way to feel in control and powerful is to use the power her body has in attracting males.
There is no art of winning over a man anymore. Well I guess if you consider dropping your drawls within a millisecond of meeting a guy art then….. Doesn’t take a rocket scientist (or maybe it does these days) to understand this. Some people accuse women like myself who are more traditional of being prudish, outdated in thinking and somehow placing women in little boxes that inhibit her sexuality. I’m not saying don’t have sex! I’m saying have it with the right person deserving of your body and freakiness! believe the best way to be a freak and fulfill all your sexual wants, needs and desires as a woman is NOT to sleep around with a billion strangers and men, but to find ONE GOOD GUY that you can unleash all of that on and still know at the end of the act he loves you and wants to be with you as his companion and partner – not his booty flavor of the day.
I’m telling you that being
a HOE “sexually empowered” is not progressive or going to get women anywhere. The numbers and dismal dating market in which women who don’t put out within the first hour, are tossed aside like last week’s nasty moldy left overs is further proof. Scour the internet and you will find tons of articles of “new age women” complaining about the lack of quality men out there who don’t require sex on a first date. The same women who bitch about not finding quality men are the same women opening their legs on DATE 1 of meeting a guy.
They sit and ponder why it’s so hard to find a GOOD guy who is not looking for sex within the first hour of meeting them? HELLO – GULP DOWN THAT COFFEE GIRL. Its b/c when the majority of women drive down the value of sex by making it so easily attainable by virtually any man with a penis, then other women who refuse to drop the panties at the passing of a male species will suffer.
THE “LOVE” ENTITLEMENT OF WESTERN WOMEN
You’re a woman, you have a vagina, and dammit you deserve the best guy and relationship that life can offer! RIGHT?
By virtue of being a woman, does not grant you the right to have a good companion if you made stupid choices in your life. Western women have it made. We don’t have to really depend on men to live and carve out a decent life for ourselves. We can pick and choose who we want to be with. We can get jobs, careers, houses and everything else needed to survive. We can also choose to be slutty or modest in the way we carry ourselves and our sexuality. With all those things we have we still want the other big piece of that puzzle – MEN. We still want, need and desire men for intimacy and companionship (at least many of us still do – others have just given up thanks to the SISTERHOOD SEXING ANYTHING THAT MOVES).
With feminism telling women they can do whatever they want, be and act like a man b/c we’re “EQUAL” yada yada many Western women feel the ball is always in our court no matter our actions. And any consequence of our actions is a result of everyone else doing us wrong and not seeing the value in WOMANHOOD.
How many countless women today reward men who are simply out to use them for sex and with no intent on committing to her or even treating her halfway decent? Women feel it’s our right (and it is) to sleep around with any guy that gets us going b/c we can. YET we also feel that after we have been used up and tossed aside like today’s garbage, that some other good guy with resources to make our lives better should come along and pick us out of the dumpster and make us his bride and mother of his kids or long term companion that he should love, adore and be proud of. SORRY LADIES, that frame of thought is INSANE!
No quality man with any resources wants a reformed
HOE “sexually empowered” woman who sexually rewarded jerks and losers b/c they had a six pack and wide shoulders. Actually, there are guys who want this or don’t mind this at all. Go seek them out b/c no man of quality wants this in a woman he settles down with or loves. The jerks and bad boys got the milk for free and the good quality guys feel they shouldn’t have to pay for it either and be stuck with your old tired worn ass later. Sound harsh? – it is b/c frankly women need to hear it. Women do not hold themselves accountable for half of the issues we come against in which we contribute a higher percentage to our own lack of getting what we want out of relationships.
The relationship market today for women is BAD b/c its women who refuse to hold themselves accountable for their actions. The constant burying the head in the sand and believing some high quality man is going to appear at the snap of your finger when you
decide REALIZE you no longer can compete with the other up and coming hoes “sexually empowered” women is not how it works.
This whole idea that “I deserve love” that so many western women have is utterly ridiculous. It’s as if no matter how much of a skank, hoe or sexually promiscuous lacking self-discipline woman you are, you deserve to find a good quality man to love and cherish you. Here is my take on that – TOO BAD SOO SAD. People who make bad choices in life and who are sexually loose should not be rewarded with quality mates.
Its like anything in this world. If you want the best you need to be the best to get the best. IOW’s as a woman, if you choose to be a sexually loose girl who has been passed around by many men during your time, then NO you are not deserving of a quality man. YES I SAID IT! Stick with the men who shared your lifestyle and who will most likely be more forgiving for your sexual promiscuity & the mental and emotional drama that comes with that.
And one last thing – stop driving down the value of women and our sexuality by listening to extremist loony feminists who are only giving you half of the story!
There is nothing wrong with sex. But like with anything, privileges can be turned into consequences if you abuse them. And right now, women are abusing the sexual market with their inability to see the forest for the tree.
Now go sit in the corner, DRINK THE COFFEE and don’t come out until you WAKE THE EFF UP!
LOVE YOU SISTER – NEECY :D