The MALE HAMSTER is alive and well!!


So lemme get this straight.

Women who reward bad boys , abusers, douchebags and jerks while giving the invisible middle finger and gag reflex to the nice beta guys who would love and treat them kindly, who show responsibility and a willingness to be a good decent man towards her – these women are scum of the earth  and deserve their dreaded fate when the used condom splatters against  the fan with jerky boy.

YET. Men who coddle, reward, admire, chase, make excuses for, and continue to try to change the TROUBLED, yet attractive, hot women while giving the blatant middle finger to the very women who may not be *AS* hot, but who are sane, well balanced, emotionally stable, would make great wives and mothers and solid girlfriends – are good men just  exercising their manly right to want the best looking women alive – batshitness be damned. They are not deserving of the consequences that come with making bad decisions in women for superficial reasons.

Ok got it.

Is there a such thing as the male hamster? I believe so –  The MANSTER? You know that thing that justifies why he is willing to put up with a hot woman’s craziness and BS. That thing that says “oh hot women love bad boys b/c of their hotness. It’s just natural for them to be that way”. That thing that says it’s his God given right to pursue the hottest women, despite their craziness and serious issues and that he should bear no consequences for such choices? That reasoning that says the ugly or not as hot women should and will never get away with the same questionable actions as the hotter ones.

The same reasons men make excuses for good looking and attractive women’s bad behaviors at the expense of the not so hot women,  is the SAME as when women make excuses for bad boys behaviors at the expense of the not so hot nice beta guy.

Why is this never acknowledged in the manosphere? Could it be because there is a male hamster that doesn’t see the double standard? Because that would mean that men would be held accountable for their choices in women, and that it may require them to look at the reality that the very women they desire are the women who cause the most heartache and pain in their lives. The same way a woman who chooses the jerky asshole over the cool laid back beta guy who would at least treat her respectfully.

And yes, just like women try to change the  irredeemable bad boy and turn him around by giving him their love, devotion and admiration, the same applies to men who try to rescue, save and white knight the hot and attractive women who cannot be redeemed from their insanity.

The pendulum swings both ways and its time men recognize that their behaviors too, also drive women’s behaviors. The fact that so many women these days are rewarded for simply being attractive and having nothing else going for them, is a prime reason why men are complaining about how women act these days and are so full of themselves – AND why the good guys who go out of their way to be that responsible loving man get the shaft.

White knighting and making excuses for women based on their attractiveness is NO DIFFERENT than the chick who makes excuses for the Alpha bad boys bad behavior while punishing the not so Alpha beta types for the same behaviors.

Until men change their standards in women beyond the surface, continue to see that women will continue to morph into the very monsters that these men complain about YET seem to can’t get enough of.

I do not understand the concept of a beta guy who has been shafted on too many occasions by certain types of women, suddenly trying to “improve” himself by learning how to have more favorable opportunities with the same kinds of women who exhibit bad judgment and issues. The reasoning – “men love hot women” is becoming as played out as the previous year’s cell phone. No more should men be allowed to use this excuse as to why they continue to put up with, chase, and seek out certain kinds of women for superficial reasons, YET complain about these same kinds of women partaking in the same behaviors they are – picking and choosing who gets the favorable passes for being Looney and who doesn’t.

Its time men recognize the role they play in the scores of crazy, entitled women today.  Just as women who reward bad boy behaviors only creates additional men with these behaviors, the same applies to men who reward hot women for being lunatics.

The Rihanna’s of the world are only by products of the men who give them passes for being beautiful. And more and more young women will exhibit the same behaviors until men change the standards by which they  judge women. If men do not wish to do this, then they need to stop bitching and moaning about the behaviors of women that do not favor the more respectful nicer guys.


16 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Omerta327
    Aug 17, 2012 @ 19:41:16

    You made a post to tell us you’re making a post?



  2. Zorro
    Aug 18, 2012 @ 03:22:51

    The MANSTER???!!

    Gotta love it.

    Great to have you back, grrrrrrl.



  3. Omerta327
    Aug 18, 2012 @ 12:32:00

    Well, it’s always been the case – when it comes to sex, women think emotionally, and men think with their cocks. It’ll always be true. If a girl doesn’t pass the boner test, it’s a no-go.

    But I also understand it works both ways. If you’re a good guy but a beta, no amount of “good-guyness” is gonna help you. Women get boners too, ya know. 😉

    The key for men is to be a good man who’s kind and considerate, but also has alpha qualities. You’ve got to be the leader. You’ve got to be the MAN. If your woman gets out of line, you’ve got to take her aside and tell her that shit will NOT be tolerated.

    Just because you’re a “good guy” and not a “bad boy” doesn’t mean you’re a beta.



  4. Marellus
    Aug 18, 2012 @ 17:19:50

    Great to see you back … now I can delete my blog … 🙂



  5. Emma the Emo
    Aug 18, 2012 @ 21:09:45

    There is one good use for badboy chasing women – if they visit these badboys in jail, these badboys won’t rape their weaker inmates so much. Other than that, they reward naughty behavior and encourage nastiness.

    MANSTER, lol! Seriously, this is probably something real.
    But really, I read comments of men who went for crazy hot women and got chewed and spit out, and had to recover for a long time. Some even admit they have a thing for crazy hot women and love them anyway. I wouldn’t necessarily say these guys have a hamster, since they admit they are doing it and know the realities of their preferences for hotness over niceness. But it does seem as if the badboy theme is more prominent in the manosphere than the crazy hot girl theme. Perhaps because of the manster, or because badboy thing really does happen more often. Anyway, I dislike both phenomena and I’m glad I have someone who likes my niceness.



  6. Omerta327
    Aug 25, 2012 @ 15:06:14

    O/T, but damn it’s a sad day.

    RIP, Neil Armstrong.



  7. Omerta327
    Sep 17, 2012 @ 12:59:45

    I know this place is a ghost town now, but I found this so fascinating I thought I’d share it with anyone who might show up here.

    I never new these existed – a FIRE TORNADO. 😯



  8. Neecy
    Sep 18, 2012 @ 19:32:39


    That is freakin scarey and crazy!!

    So how ya doin O?



  9. Ray
    Jan 16, 2013 @ 17:03:55

    Beautiful women can be overated! Smart guys will get tired of their narcissm (hope I spelled that right)! I’ve dated beautys and I can tell you most of us would rather have a 6 that trys to look like a ten than a ten that acts like a four! What’s that old saying! Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly is straight to the bone! A bad attitude can drop a beautys desirability to a real low! Beauty doesn’t mean happiness either! Halle Berry is working on husband number (what is it now?) 3 or 4?



  10. Dave
    Jun 04, 2013 @ 19:18:01

    Hi Neecy! I haven’t heard from you yet, but hoping that I will. Anyway, another term that I use to describe these women with the ‘Alpha Male Disease’ is ‘Damaged Goods’. Many of these women are psychologically and emotionally damaged beyond repair…….no matter what you do or say. True beauty comes from within……not without. Too many women are beautiful on the outside but they are damaged beyond repair on the inside.. In fact, many of these women grow up without a positive father-figure in their life and, as a result, they don’t have an adequate understanding of what a good man really is. Because of this, their point of reference is the alpha-male. Fuck these women…… They are useless scum. I’ve had enough of them….lol!



    • Dave
      Jun 05, 2013 @ 03:40:02

      This is why these same women, time and time again, will continue to make the same mistakes over and over again. No father-figure, no adequate reference to use, so the cycle just repeats itself over and over again. One alpha male after another in a ceaseless string of meaningless relationships. Through it all, they become ‘Damaged Goods’…..hence my term.



    • Dave
      Jun 05, 2013 @ 03:45:28

      I apologize for my profanity. I don’t need to use that to express my viewpoint! 🙂



    • Dave
      Jun 05, 2013 @ 06:12:30

      BTW, these same women then complain that there are no good men left…! All I have to say to these women is ‘there are good men all around you sista, just open your eyes and your heart’!



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