Just a friendly reminder………



In case you needed to be reminded – Black women. You are a chair, a non human, a THING to be used as a prop for the so called “oppressed” White woman to smugly sit atop.

All the *WOMEN* are *WHITE*


All the *BLACKS* are *MEN*

Mosey on over to Not Your Girl Friday wordpress site and she outlines this so very eloquently. Here are a few links to get you started.




In the meantime and in between time let’s discuss……

Hold on ya’ll! I hear something in the background.

Is it a BIRD?

Is it a PLANE?


Hmmmm. Nooooo.

Wait, is it the sound of the CALVARY coming and consisting  of:

  •  White feminists decrying such blatant misogynist imagery? …….(against Black  women)




  • Black men denouncing such blatant racist imagery?…… (against Black women)



  • Sister Soldiers battle crying of such anti-Black imagery? …..(against Black women)



  •  The Black community marching for the support of such racist imagery? …(against its Precious Black Queens mules, workhorses, mammies)?




Then what is that sound?

OHHHHH! I’ve managed to finally make it out. It’s the sound of the one group of people _______ BW can always count on to speak out on our behalf!


Yes CRICKETS! CRICKETS  CHIRPING IN THE BACKGROUND is what BW can expect when yet another PRIVLEDGED group (i.e. White women, Black males, White males, etc.) gives us the middle finger and then apologizes afterwards. LOL

Granted this story was posted on Huff post and people of all walks of life came out to denounce the pictorial. But we ALL know two things:

(1)   No white woman editor of any mag would ever green light such a photo depiction if it were a White woman as the chair

(2)    if this had been the SAME pic of  a WHITE MAN sitting atop a plastic strapped mostly naked White woman with her legs in the air this would be all over the media and World news tonight. The White feminists would be running story after story, blog post after blog post, tweet after tweet, Facebook group after Facebook group of this ATROCITY against *WOMEN*.

But when the sentiment is “all the Women are White and all the Blacks are men” Black women get the shaft once again.

Now Let’s take a quiz. Just to keep our brains and minds refreshed of what is really going on and why Black women need to be aware and start creating our own calvaries for US.

It’s going to be multiple choice. If you get the answers right, consider yourself an enlightened BW who sees the shit for what it is. If not, keep reading my blog and other BWE blogs to gain better knowledge.

1.)    White feminists today:
(a)   Care about issues affecting all women

(b)   Are full of shit

(c)    Are aligned with Black women in the sisterhood for equality

(d)   always quiet when one of their own gets caught with their hand in the cookie jar

(e)   A & C

(f)     B &C

(g)   ALL of the above

True or False.

2.)    Racism only matters to the average Black person (especially Black MEN) when it comes from WHITE MEN.

(a)   TRUE

(b)   FALSE

3.)    In the eyes of society and “certain groups”, the most and only oppressed groups are:
(a)   White women

(b)   Black men

(c)    Black women

(d)   Crickets

(e)   A & B

(f)     C&D

4.)    If you are a Black women who feels todays feminist movement is full of shit and narrowly focused SOLELY on the issues affecting White women then you are:

(a)   Jealous of White women

(b)   Bitter against White women

(c)    Just stupid

(d)   Very aware and enlightened about the term “RECIPROCITY” and refuse to support movements and groups who do not reciprocate


(f)     D & E

(g)   A, B, C

5.)    In the eyes of society and “certain groups” all of the:

(a)   Women are White, and all of the Blacks are Men

(b)   Women who like bright rep lipstick are frisky!

(c)    mainstream TV shows and movies featuring Black women are to increase positive perceptions of Black womanhood and women.

(d)   Issues affecting Black women (like sexism AND racism) are the top priority of Black women “ALLIES” such as:  Black men, the Black community, Sister Soldiers and White women.

(f)     C, & D

(g)   All of the above

6.)    That disgusting picture was done to promote and bring light to:

(a)   The social and political racist power structure in society

(b)   How HYPOCRITICAL & FULL OF SHIT White feminists are

(c)    how It aint just White men who are racist and sexist!

(d)   Black blow up dolls

(e)   Why Black women need to wake the hell up and stop aligning with groups of people who DO NOT GIVE A SHIT about you or *YOUR* struggle

(f)     A, B, C, E

(g)   All of the above

7.)    The only “privledged” group(s) in the world, society etc. are White males?

(a)   TRUE

(b)   FALSE

46 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Neecy
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 09:37:35

    The fashion industry has officially lost its phuking mind!


  2. BrownSmiles
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 11:05:08

    I saw this pic and threw up in my mouth. The only silver lining I can see coming out of this, is hopefully it will continue to awaken the remaining walking dead BW among us.
    My God…


    • AYY
      Jan 25, 2014 @ 13:47:19

      Open displays of contempt for BW is increasing, met with silence of course, while people keep screaming about injustices against BM and WW (mostly members of their own group–take note BW). Hopefully it will snap more BW into reality.


  3. onelesssoldier
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 12:05:13

    And, as we all expected the same people outraged over the football player are the same ones who haven’t said a word about this chair “incident”. Because i guess only ww and bm feel injustice amiright?


  4. Brenda55
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 12:19:00

    OOOOO. I wanna take the test.
    My answers to quiz.

    For extra points. Explain your answer.
    The only “privledged” group(s) in the world, society etc. are White males?
    White women have white privilege and black men have male privilege.
    They will argue otherwise as they to throw black women under the bus in their quest to take over the coveted top spot.

    How did I do?


  5. AYY
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 13:57:12

    Did you see the response to this display?

    A gay black Russian man sits atop a white man. At first, I thought it was a good idea. Then I realized that once again the LGBT, black men, and ebil white manz (even this gay black man seems to be trying to cover WW a$$ again LOL) are at the forefront. They should have had a BW sitting on top of a WW if anything. The mistreatment of BW is unique from that of any other group, so BM can not substitute for BW and pretend they face the exact same things.
    Can we for once spotlight how many WW mistreat/look down on BW, instead of BM’s complaints against the WM? They’re not trying to hear it though.


  6. AYY
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 14:08:28

    And the funny thing is that many people, most of whom aren’t BW, including BM, are commenting on the original display saying it’s not offensive. (A few BW have commented that it’s not offensive. Really?!) Yet, let the white chick had been sitting on a black male sculpture; all types of people would have been protesting. Except they would have conveniently overlooked the fact that it’s a WW on the chair, and then gone on about WM oppressing BM. lol See how people overlook BW’s dehumanization–oh, I forgot, you can’t dehumanize what isn’t human anyway, right? SMH


  7. Mikey Tandino
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 15:02:48

    They are gonna keep trying it as they see more BW step up and step out. None of this is accidental or coincidental. This is all propaganda, hate filled propaganda to keep BW feeling low and mentally like a chair, here for some UWW’s use.

    No. No BW is here for that. I wish I understood those BW who are guard dogs and crumb lickers for WW feminists. Its like they dont feel validated unless someone white is in the room to pat them on the back. These women hate BW and they arent shy about it. There will never be solidarity with a group of women who feel no matter how low class and busted they are, that they trump BW simply because their skin is white.

    How any BW can make an excuse for this is beyond me. Building our on networks are key. BW already have the bulk of the money, now we have to start using it wisely.


  8. Ms. Lady
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 15:56:50

    I for one feel insulted because BW have been mistreated for centuries in a way that ALL non-black women (Latino, Asian, White) have not. I deal with nonblack women haters who want to stereotype me on all the time. If the pic had been with the BW sitting atop I’m sure it would’ve been a problem and shown as a story on the local news. I don’t care that the artist (Allen Jones) makes art with women in it all of the time. HE DOES NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO USE BW like that. I’m sure that he does not have one fcking pic depicting a cave btch as a chair with a BW sitting on top because deep down he like many others have been taught not to value BW in general. We are the loud mouth, unhappy, neck/eye rolling, booty shaking, twerking, jealous minded, trash talking, single parenting, super independent, subhuman, church going-hoping-begging, nappy-headed, & supportive foundation structure kind of women for BM who typically mistreat us & the black community who turns their backs on us when we need help.

    It would also be nice for some BWE groups to stop sitting around & complaining amongst each other if they are not going to publicly stand up as an organization in front of the media and shout to the mountain tops how wrong we as BW are being treated and WE WILL NOT ACCEPT IT ANYMORE!

    Though I’m not 100% satisfied with many of the BM leaders who claim to fight and defend the black community, I do appreciate that they have a VOICE and take a stand against the media and the world when they are not happy with the treatment of a black person. Though it is usually a stand for a black man and something frivolous he did. (Kobe Bryant, Tiger Woods, OJ, T. Owens, 2pac, Tookie Williams, Biggie Smalls, other black men who did not set a positive example for the black community, who was either color struck or chose to marry & reproduce with nonblack women & give them a lavish lifestyle.)

    What happened to Travon Martin was one of the many acts of racism in this country toward BM. It was a horribly evil act. But what about Renisha Mc Bride? Who marched & protested or wore t-shirts for her? What about Andrea Lane when her basketball recruit bf was beating her down? The only time it somewhat mattered was when it was Rihanna and that was shortly lived. Shouldn’t things like that be one of a BWE group’s purposes? We as Black American women out number Black American men so why the hell aren’t we getting on the bus & marching our cute asses through Washington? Why don’t we stir up matters that are important to us as a group? Fck BM most of them are not on our team. We can all work together as humans but we should be down for our own cause not theirs. I’m not “The Help” and my name ain’t Sealy.

    Italians are typical stereotyped as being passionate and having strong personalities. It can easily be said that many BW are the same way. However, we get labeled angry, loud, and overly aggressive. It is time to change that myth.

    (E.g) Gays have become so powerful that it has become a major issue for even comedians to make fun of them and for the word “faggot” to be said in public.
    Though I do not judge or hate, I certainly do not agree with their lifestyle. My point is that even they have acquired a great deal of respect in this country whether deserving or not.

    So, when is it time for BW all over to network together, create organizations, business establishments, a religion based on biblical truth (instead of the lies white folks taught us to keep us enslaved), support groups, and financial gains FOR US BY US. How about getting BW entertainers involved (Oprah, etc)? Shouldn’t BWE unite together? Out of the black race in America, BW are much more likely to be educated and obtain a degree…So why don’t we usually have more than a nice hairdo, name-brand outfit & shoes, a roof over our heads, toys for our kids, and a cool ride? It’s time to truly love our skin color, our own hair, our REAL history/teach it to the children, our culture and let the world know that we are NO LONGER having it. We are unprotected as women in this world so we gotta have our own backs.

    I know change can be extremely difficult but isn’t it worth it in this instance. Stop buying weave and hair products from non-black suppliers. Instead of being disgusted with how WW tend to be put on pedestals…do what they have done to gain power…evolve. Just as scientists on the discovery channel study animals, insects, and other people’s cultures, we should be doing the EXACT same thing. It is time for us to study the white Jews, middle-easterners, and other cultures who are successful in this world while maintaining our faith in God and love for our own culture instead of trying to blend in with other groups of people so that we are accepted.

    Do not get me wrong I am all for faith in God…without him nothing can be done. However, he has blessed many of us (BW) to have a natural drive to go above and beyond. It is up to us to use this strength to empower other BW who are willing to grow and let go of the bs we have accepted for too long.


    • Ms. Lady
      Jan 25, 2014 @ 18:24:16

      Ms. Lady aka msladee007


    • chicnoir
      Feb 28, 2014 @ 15:40:42

      Well said @miss lady


    • itsmeak
      Mar 07, 2014 @ 16:12:16

      The BWE groups aren’t going to yell out in public that they ‘are not going to take it’ anymore Ms. Lady because for one thing they preach that actions speak louder than works and that black women actually changing and getting to action will change things for themselves and other black women not just talking about it. Some BWE blogs also say that black women who are trying to affect change in their lives should move stealthily only especially offline which is a smart thing to do because you KNOW the horrible nature of most humans in general, as soon as you blurt out your business about your plans, that’s when the saboteurs will come out and prevent your plans from going forward and you know that this definitely applies to black women.

      As soon as the BWE ladies even try to loudly and publicly go offline to state anything, the saboteurs of any color and any gender will jump on it to tear it all down because someone told them what was going on! No some black women, if not many of them, will have to keep their plans to improve their lives all to themselves and some of them can’t even tell their family members


  9. Shaylah
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 16:44:16

    The LGBT must took a page from the Jews playbook. From what I heard that show
    Duck Dynasty might be in its last leg. The patriarch of the family made a comments about gays and blacks. He is only getting backlash because he talked about the gays. Never mind what he said about blacks because people have studied us and they know we only give lip service because we don’t pose a threat. The LGBT community is a monied crowd and you don’t upset the money crowd. The Latinos are exercising their power. They have a channel called Fusion that feature Hispanic host and hostesses. They are exercising their power. We as black women can do the same because we bring TRILLIONS OF DOLLARS to the forefront and that is lot of buying power. Let’s seize the moment will things are in our favor.


  10. BrownSmiles
    Jan 25, 2014 @ 19:11:51

    I’m not even worried about WW, BM or the Sista Soliders because I am sure about one thing: you WILL reap what you have sown.
    The injustices against BW will not go unchecked. However, we must do our part to make sure that we neutralize the manner in which we contribute to our own subjugation, which is exactly what BWE is all about.
    Yes it is propoganda to stop us in our tracks. Its having a positive impact. We can’t have BW unifying and love themselves, supporting each other and knowing their own worth, can we?
    Yes WW and BM are going to fight to the death to maintain the current status quo for BW, as these two groups have the most to lose as BW
    continue to rise.
    They will be exposed for their vicious behaviors against BW, because they won’t be able to control themselves as we flee the plantation. This extends to the other groups who exploit BW as well.
    Change is one of the few guarantees we have in life. Let’s take it and run!


  11. Lacy alex
    Jan 26, 2014 @ 14:45:42

    I wonder what possessed the idiot to create a chair like that. Maybe a lack of creativity?


  12. Days of Broken Arrows
    Jan 26, 2014 @ 15:49:16

    Good to see you back posting at Roissy…and here again. Excellent points with this post. I’ll add it’s not so much that chair that’s offensive than the fact that someone chose to share the pic without saying “Wait a minute…”


  13. Peanut
    Jan 26, 2014 @ 21:06:35

    sickening, truly disgusting and they can keep their bull shut apology they knew exactly what they were doing, azzholes.


  14. Peanut
    Jan 26, 2014 @ 21:07:59

    I think it really says a lot that (to them) a black woman naked, bound and literally being sat upon by a white female is art work. that really says a lot about how some white people see black women through such a distorted lens…and no, no one will come to our aid, other than ourselves (some of us). we have no protection or allies. black people in russia would be advised to get out now.


  15. Maya
    Jan 27, 2014 @ 16:03:52

    Neecy!!!! Did a black woman actually choose to pose for the photo, choosing to degrade herself. Or is it a black female mannequin? Either way this is still degrading to all black women.


  16. SayWhat
    Jan 29, 2014 @ 09:26:23

    I’m sure you thought that was funny, but it was actually distasteful.


    • omerta327
      Jan 29, 2014 @ 09:55:23

      I didn’t think it was funny, I was just giving my initial reaction to it. I am a guy after all.

      Jeez, lighten up.


      • Mitzi
        Jan 29, 2014 @ 11:47:52

        Sorry, but I agree with SayWhat. So you’re a guy. And? That give you an automatic pass to make an inappropriate comment? It was just in poor taste given the subject matter.

        I’m sorry, Neecy. I know this is your house, and omerta is your friend, but I am a bit leery of men coming in these spaces and making distasteful comments at black women’s expense.


        • Neecy
          Jan 29, 2014 @ 12:09:01

          @ mitzi and saynwhat (and anyone else who saw the comment). I’m sorry I didn’t see the comments the last few days and didn’t see it there until today.

          You’re right. It was in bad taste and I saw nothing funny about it because this is a serious topic here.


          • SayWhat
            Feb 01, 2014 @ 05:31:24

            Thanks for removing it, I’ve lurked on some boards where wm are given waaaaayyyyyy to much rope,and it quite frankly makes the moderators look like fools because they would never give anyone else that much freedom.

            Now, about that post that you PROMISED we’d have?


      • Neecy
        Jan 29, 2014 @ 12:07:18

        OMERTA SERIOUSLY??? I truly expect better from you in this regard!

        I removed your comment because it was in poor taste considering the actual topic and discussion. This wasn’t the time nor place to make such a comment omertà. Seriously.


  17. Neecy
    Jan 29, 2014 @ 12:12:36

    My new post is going up this evening everyone!



  18. Soul Alve
    Jan 30, 2014 @ 07:18:16

    I did see the comment and thank you Neecy for removing it. I think we have to be careful of people and their intentions and why they are so present in BW’s spaces. Perhaps this was a one off, but based upon that comment, I dont think that this Omerta character is an actual ally of BW. Anyone who can take this topic and make some offensive disgusting joke about it, needs to be given the perpetual side eye.

    Just my two cents


  19. Fakeaccountreallyvoice
    Feb 07, 2014 @ 02:34:07

    Reading the posts i am afraid that i will disagree. What is the purpose of the art? According my opinion is to provoke our thoughts pointing the ugly reality we all keep under the carpet and at that point this artistic creation hit the nail on the target. This picture shows us the dipole in our society. In the bottom is the black woman, naked, legs up mimicking sexual position, wearing fetish boots, face not showing, receiver of sexual fantasies, dehumanised, used. On the top the white woman full dressed, relaxed, looking through camera, smiling, worshipped, clamshell on distress, breakable so needing. Ask yourselves, how mass media portray black women, how are pictured in current hip hop culture, what roles lead infilm industry? Surfing the web i met bw smart, elegant, cultivated, hard workers, loving mothers, deserving human beings of nothing less than our respect and admiral. But how often we see these positive images in media? How people acknowledge them in order to demolish the monolith stereotype? When white women had the white knight rescuer during European renaissance the black women had to wear the armor themselves. That armor in order to protect their feelings made them lose their inherent feminity, made them detached from their feelings, not allowed them being loved neither cherrished, led some of them to believe that they didn’t need these emotions out of fear they would never experience them, gave in emotionless sex cause they thought they couldn’t do better. I see them bleeding and sweating, because the armor burden is heavy, saying i am stong to keep going because help is not coming, never came either way as far they remember. Someone may think they are soulless as they march their path of pain, that they can take everything. But the most fragile and precious part of black woman, her soul, is well barried under tones of heavy metal waiting to flourish when warmth and nurture are met. However something is changing, all over the blogosphere black charismatic female voices are meeting, building new communities, questioning and rejecting stereotypes, acknowledging their individual value, demanding the well reserving positions in society. In this black woman renaissance that are witnessing this picture is not the enemy. I think its purpose was to question the current position of bw in social ladder, to question the role of media in building that position, to question our own stereotypes that we are unwilling to accept that we have in mind and because these i think are this picture purposes, i believe that its target is accomplished. As a non black, non female person, i feel too ashamed to look you at your eyes, call only say sorry, but sorry is not enough, not enough for so heavy burden


  20. Eji
    Feb 11, 2014 @ 15:38:44

    Woah! I almost had a stroke when I saw that pic. I had to go and check out the date just to make sure, but this Piece of CRAP (SHIT, ‘ish, bull, f..kery) has been out for two weeks now and NOT one single word of coverage from the media, from Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson or any other “good” BM, Feminist WW, etc. Not one single sound! I only heard about this at all cuz I came by to catch up on my nesting. This is disgusting and a friend of mine just said that it was “painful”. but I am not pained, I am shaking and head and laughing (a little smug) because, REALLY who was expecting anyone to call WW out on their blatant, racism?
    I concur with “Peanut” above.
    PS: U didn’t give the answers, but I exect I passed Ur test with flying colours. Colour me enlightened!


  21. chicnoir
    Feb 28, 2014 @ 11:55:02

    OMG what the hell is that thing she’s sitting on. How offensive.

    *gets self togeather and gives Neicy a hug and a scented candle.

    Well Neicy I see you are still here putting the truth to people. That God for sisters like you and Khadeja/muslim Bushido,


  22. omerta327
    Mar 04, 2014 @ 09:36:38

    Happy belated birthday, Neece.
    It was March 3rd, right?
    You’re prob still partying in Vegas.😎


  23. itsmeak
    Mar 07, 2014 @ 12:53:07

    The sooner more black women create streams of media reflecting the different beauty, skin tones, socio-economic levels, cultural backgrounds, beliefs, complexities and nuances of black women the better and other black women will need to financially support the creators of that media regularly as well the way they financially supported the black actors in Spike Lee movies back in the late 80s and early 90s whose success became stratospheric.

    It IS possible for black women to support promote the beauty and dignified image of black women in the media as Eunice Johnson and Beth-Ann Hardison have proven. Look at the soon to be released book Vintage Black Glamour by Nichelle Gainer filled with pics of beautiful, elegant and glamourous African American celebs from decades past and a few non-blacks such as Yves Saint Laurent also promoted an image of black women at their most beautiful and most elegant.

    No more of black women lining the pockets of their white enemies and their black enemies like Tyler Perry please and black women need to stop relying on and waiting for white mainstream media to throw you some tasteful ‘bones’ or scraps. Create your own magazines, websites, production companies and TV channels because there us no other way to counter the black-woman-as-chair-art business.


  24. itsmeak
    Mar 07, 2014 @ 12:53:33

    Happy Birthday Neece


  25. omerta327
    Mar 19, 2014 @ 15:01:52

    Alright it’s pretty slow around here, and this is totally O/T, but I wanted to get some opinions on this. I saw this in the news tonight and it completely blew my mind.

    Apparently this woman in CA joined a planet fitness gym, was walking on a treadmill, and was told by the staff to cover herself up because she was so toned that she was “intimidating” the other members.

    IOW, having a fit body at the friggin gym makes other people baaad about themselves. And we can’t have that.


    Serously, WTF is this world coming to?!? We’re becoming a society of pussies.


  26. BrownSmiles
    Mar 20, 2014 @ 11:01:28

    Neecy..hope everything is okay. I really miss your posts. Planet Fitness is crazy, they are known to give out pizza to their members/customers. That is obviously counter productive. Its PC on steroids.


    • omerta327
      Mar 20, 2014 @ 22:15:12

      You bring up a good point. I forgot about this.

      I used to go to a planet fitness with a buddy of mine – he had a membership but never went, so his wife asked me to hit the gym with him once or twice a week.

      So we would go and I noticed signs on the walls saying they would have free pizza bagels every Wednesday or something. I thought that was kinda weird.

      But what really got me were the signs saying “NO DEAD LIFTING”. Dead lifting is a weight lifting exercise that really helps to build overall muscle mass, but they don’t allow you to do it because it might make other people feel baaad about themselves.

      Boo-f*cking-hoo. STFU and go home.


  27. Ayy
    Mar 20, 2014 @ 18:19:46

    Yeah, Neecy, we haven’t heard from you in almost 2 months. Hope all’s well!


  28. BrownSmiles
    Mar 20, 2014 @ 22:40:25

    What does IOW mean? I don’t see that often.


  29. Neecy
    Apr 01, 2014 @ 08:47:23

    Whew ok everybody I’m so sorry for my a dense thanks for b day wishes!!! New post I’m putting up explaining what happened.


  30. 18andLegal
    Jun 23, 2014 @ 21:47:57

    White women and Black men benefit from the White patriarchal system in their races in this country. White men cuddle White women and put them on the pedestal as the image of beauty while Black women always protect and cuddle Black men from ”da evil White man”. But White men are no better. White men promote Black men and White women as privileged in society for their own benefit. Thus these groups have privileges and feel entitled to disrespect Black women whenever they feel like it.

    Honestly I don’t trust African American men at all. I hate the way that they disrespect Black women in their music by calling us bitches and hoes. And their lack of protection of Black women and children from racists attacking us. Many times African American men take part in abusing and mistreating Black women in this country. And they will do anything to uplift the White women and any non Black women for acceptance in this society. And non Black women allow African American men to uplift them and put them on a pedestal because they think that they are above Black women because they have lighter skin and silkier hair. Society and White controlled media puts anything that is not Black on a pedestal and African American men go along with this mindset too. Thus African American men and racist non Blacks are one and the same to me only African American males are White men in Blackface.


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